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Nikki Exotika is looking out for one of her fellow 90 Day Fiancé stars. 

The season 10 alum has been keeping up with the TLC franchise, including the latest drama involving Faith and her sketchy American boyfriend Loren. Like many viewers, Nikki isn’t impressed by the homeless and penniless Loren. She thinks Faith needs to watch out. 

Loren makes a disturbing admission to Faith on ‘90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days’ 

Loren, a 33-year-old from Las Vegas, fell for Faith, a 30-year-old transgender woman from the Philippines, after they met on a dating site. Now, he’s traveled to her country to meet her for the first time in person – and hopefully get married. 

But Loren has been keeping some secrets from Faith. For one, he’s “broke” and has no fixed abode. Instead, he couch surfs and crashes with friends. While she’s dreaming of moving to the U.S. with her first boyfriend, his plan is to move to the Philippines, where the cost of living is cheaper. He also isn’t interested in a monogamous relationship. But he hasn’t told Faith that he wants to keep things open. Nor has he revealed that he’s been having sex with other people while they’ve been dating. 

Soon after he arrived in Manila, Loren learned he had likely caught an STD from a person he hooked up with shortly before he left Las Vegas. In the Sept. 29 episode, he confessed his indiscretion to Faith. She was stunned. 

“I know he sleeps at other houses, but he never told me, ‘I have sex with other girls,’” she said in a confessional. “I was never suspicious because I trusted him. That really hurts.”

Loren tried to present the situation as a misunderstanding, even though he previously admitted that he never explicitly told Faith he was being intimate with other people. 

“For me, it was just meaningless sex,” Loren said in an interview. “But I don’t think Faith fully understood that I was sleeping with other people.”

Nikki Exotika from ‘90 Day Fiancé’ reacts to Loren’s STD confession

Portrait of Justin and Nikki from from '90 Day Fiance' Season 10
Justin and Nikki from from ’90 Day Fiance’ Season 10 | TLC
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Loren’s confession had Faith questioning whether they had a future together. 

“He lied to me,” she said. “I feel that I don’t know him. I feel betrayed.” 

Many 90 Day Fiancé fans feel that Faith is right to be cautious. That includes Nikki, a transgender woman whose relationship with a man named Justin from Moldova was featured in the show’s 10th season in 2023.

“Wait a got damn minute,” Nikki commented after the show posted a clip of Faith and Loren’s STD conversation on Instagram. “He said he has ‘gonorrhea’ and he can’t kiss???” 

“That means he has it in the throat,” she wrote, which she thinks means he likely got it from oral sex. “Lord please keep FAITH SAFE!!! I can’t with Promiscuous MEN!” 

“Apparently the issue is he’s not “FAITH-ful,” she added in a follow-up comment.  

Faith made it clear to Loren that she saw his behavior as cheating. For her, it’s a particularly hurtful betrayal because she was hesitant to get involved with someone in the first place. 

“As a trans woman, it’s hard to find someone who can genuinely love us,” she said. “That’s why I didn’t get into relationships. Because I know in the end, they’ll just leave us. No one takes us seriously.”

“I feel like he’s made a fool out of me,” she added. 

90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days airs Sundays at 8 p.m. ET on TLC. Episodes also stream on Max.

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