‘90 Day Fiance’: Ash Naeck Defends Avery Warner in Heartfelt Post After She Is Accused of Neglecting Her Oldest Daughter

Most of what we know about Avery Warner is about her relationship with Ash Naeck on 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days. We also know that she has two daughters, though they are rarely shown on the show.

Recently, more information has been coming out about Warner’s personal life and some of it isn’t too pretty. But now that an anonymous source has made all kinds of claims about Warner being a bad mother, Naeck is coming to her defense.

What are the accusations against Warner?

Recently, a list called, “10 Things She Doesn’t Want You to Know,” written by an anonymous source came out and made all kinds of allegations against Warner.

“1. Avery does not have custody of her oldest daughter and never has,” the list starts. “2. Avery is allowed visitation but rarely chooses to take her visits, nor does she call her daughter ever. 3. Other than a 30-minute stint on New Year’s Day, Avery has not seen or called her daughter since fall 2019. 4. Avery refuses to contribute to her oldest daughter’s financial support, is behind on child support, and is being garnished from the state.”

It went on to allege that she was bipolar and spent time in mental institutions before getting back to more claims about Warner’s relationship with her oldest daughter, Scarlett.

“7. Avery has never been a part of her daughter’s life more than a few visits per year with no visits in between,” the list continues. “8. Avery often falsifies social media posts of her oldest daughter to make it appear as if she’s in her life often. 9. Avery has never been to a doctor’s appointment for her oldest daughter in her life. 10. From 2014-2017, Avery disappeared from her daughter’s life 100% with no calls or visits for three years straight, and upon return could not recall what grade her daughter was in.”

What does Ash Naeck have to say about these claims?

Though Naeck has confirmed that he and Warner are no longer together, he still wants the world to know that from what he has seen, Warner is a good mom.

“I’ve been with Avery for close to 16 months, on FaceTime and phone calls up to 3-4 times a day and spent time with her and was lucky to spend time with Sylver, her gorgeous little daughter in Seattle,” he wrote on Instagram. “I can share that she is an outstanding mum, conscious, caring, always putting her little one first. Avery goes out of her way to make sure Sylver is seen, heard, and loved and the way she parents her daughter is beautiful to watch. The amount of love she gives Sylver is beyond this world.”

And in regards to Scarlett, Naeck claimed that Warner does, in fact, try to see her child.

“Avery expressed with me that she would do anything to see her more but If I am not mistaken she is allowed to see her only on specified times,” he said. “I have also experienced occasions where the ex-husband didn’t let her see or talk to the eldest daughter.”

Though his overall message was supportive, he did manage to get one little jab in at Warner at the end.

“Ps: for all the haters who go around saying she is a dead beat mum, you need to bend down, peek at urself in the mirror and burst a cap in ur own a*s,” he said. “She never has weed around her daughter period. Avery may suck in an intimate relationship😉 but she is a gem of a mum.”