Demi Moore Said She ‘Went Into Contortions’ to Please Ashton Kutcher During Their Marriage

Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher finalized their divorce after eight years of marriage. Moore admitted that she pushed herself beyond her comfort zone during their relationship. She said that she struggled to contort herself into Kutcher’s ideal woman.

Demi Moore said she did things that made her uncomfortable to keep Ashton Kutcher happy

In her memoir Inside Out, Moore admitted that she “went into contortions to try to fit the mold of the woman [Kutcher] wanted his wife to be” (via People). She wanted to fulfill his sexual fantasies, even if she wasn’t entirely comfortable with them.

“I put him first,” Moore wrote. “So when he expressed his fantasy of bringing a third person into our bed, I didn’t say no. I wanted to show him how great and fun I could be.”

Moore admitted that they had two threesomes, and both left her feeling ashamed. 

“They were good people, but it was still a mistake,” she wrote. “I was strangely flooded with shame, I couldn’t shake the feeling that this whole thing was somehow my fault.”

Demi Moore shared how Ashton Kutcher justified his infidelity

She believes that by agreeing to the threesomes, she emboldened Kutcher to look outside the relationship. Moore said that Kutcher used these sexual encounters as a way to justify his infidelity.

“Because we had brought in a third party into our relationship, Ashton said, that blurred the lines and, to some extent, justified what he’s done,” Moore wrote.

In 2011, a 21-year-old woman claimed she slept with Kutcher. Moore said she never doubted the woman’s story. This was the second time she learned that Kutcher had cheated on her.

“I knew she wasn’t lying,” she wrote. “He admitted it right away.”

He moved out of their home shortly after this.

She reportedly kept him from being too close to Sean ‘Diddy’ Combs

According to one source, Moore kept Kutcher out of trouble while they were married. She didn’t want him to cheat, so she tried to keep him away from opportunities to do so. These included Sean “Diddy” Combs’ parties. 

“Demi did everything she could to keep Ashton out of compromising and tempting situations, and that definitely kept him away from these crazy situations you’re hearing about in Diddy’s case,” a source told Yahoo!. “I think Ashton owes Demi a giant thank you for keeping him on such a short leash during what would have been his peak partying years under other circumstances.”

Combs and Kutcher were good friends, but the former revealed that they stopped clubbing together when his friend met Moore. 

“Sure, Demi had to tolerate Ashton’s friendship with a complete low-life like Danny Masterson, but that was a relationship that pre-dated her even meeting Ashton,” they added. “I don’t think she ever allowed him to get as close to Diddy, with good reason!”