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Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck are officially over, and fans wonder what Jennifer Garner thinks. While Lopez and Affleck were only married for two years before calling it quits, Affleck and Garner were married for 10 years before their separation in 2015 and divorce finalization in 2018. Garner allegedly helped Affleck with his marital troubles with Lopez, and she and Lopez seemed cordial. However, a source claims Garner and Lopez are “done” with the divorce.

Jennifer Garner’s relationship with Jennifer Lopez is allegedly ‘done’ now that Lopez and Ben Affleck are divorcing

Jennifer Garner and Ben Affleck had a tight-knit bond after their divorce in 2018. The couple share three kids and vowed to co-parent effectively by staying friends. While Affleck moved on with Jennifer Lopez, Garner supported her ex-husband when his new marriage went south.

A source told Life & Style that Garner was “tolerant” of Lopez, but all bets are now off.

“Jen was extremely tolerant and always found a way to bite her tongue and be cordial to J.Lo whenever they were in the same room,” the source claimed. “But truth be told, they’re like oil and water; you couldn’t find two people more different.”

The source spoke to the publication one month before Lopez officially filed for divorce. However, according to the divorce documents, Lopez listed the official date of separation as April 26, 2024.

The insider claimed that Garner knew Affleck and Lopez’s romance “would end in tears” yet again. “She’s trying to be diplomatic about it; she doesn’t want anyone, least of all the kids, to be aware that there’s any lingering bad blood between her and J.Lo,” they continued.

The source added that Garner and Affleck’s kids bonded with Lopez’s kids, and Garner doesn’t want to discourage that. “But as far as her relationship with J. Lo, that’s done and she totally agrees it’s for the best.”

Jennifer Garner allegedly felt like Jennifer Lopez used her ‘as a pawn’

Jennifer Garner and Ben Affleck looking concerned while standing next to each other in Los Angeles 2015
Actors Jennifer Garner and Ben Affleck in 2015 | Bauer-Griffin/GC Images
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Jennifer Garner helped Ben Affleck during marital strife with Jennifer Lopez. The exes were frequently seen out together while divorce rumors swirled. Affleck visited Garner’s home near his Brentwood rental, and she also visited him. A source told DailyMail.com that Garner felt “used as a pawn” by Lopez, as she was often playing “mediator” for her ex-husband and his wife.

“Jen feels slightly used as a pawn in J.Lo’s bid to repair her marriage,” the source said, according to MSN. “She doesn’t believe it was intentional.”

“She was put in the middle, and her friends think — no matter how you look at it — a man’s ex-wife should never have to play mediator in a divorce from his new wife,” the source continued.

Another insider said Garner eventually established boundaries with Affleck regarding his issues with Lopez. “Jen eventually got to a place where she was like, ‘Sorry, figure this out yourself,’” a source told DailyMail.com. “It was beginning to become too painful for her because it was bringing back so many memories of their divorce.”

Ben Affleck’s rumored new fling physically resembles his first ex-wife

Ben Affleck might be ready to date again now that he and Jennifer Lopez are officially over. Affleck and Robert F. Kennedy Jr.’s daughter, Kathleen “Kick” Kennedy, were spotted hanging out in August 2024. Affleck’s reps say Kennedy and Affleck do not plan to pursue a romance. However, the actor and politician’s daughter allegedly had a fling before he got back together with Lopez in 2021.

A source told DailyMail.com that some people think Kennedy resembles Jennifer Garner. “The fact that people say she looks like Jen Garner is flattering to her, as she thinks Jen is beautiful,” the source said.

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