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Fans are beginning to warm up to Drew Sidora on The Real Housewives of Atlanta. The season 13 newcomer is no stranger to the entertainment world, having starred in The Game, CrazySexyCool: The TLC Story, Step Up, and other films, but viewers are seeing a different side of the singer/actor in the show.

Sidora and her husband Ralph Pittman made waves on the reality series when they argued about Pittman leaving the family for days without any explanation. And Sidora recently shared that wasn’t the first time.

Drew Sidora of 'The Real Housewives of Atlanta' Season 13
Drew Sidora of ‘The Real Housewives of Atlanta’ Season 13 | Drexina Nelson/Bravo/NBCU Photo Bank via Getty Images

Drew Sidora and husband’s marriage on display

Along with Sidora, viewers were introduced to her husband, mom, and children on RHOA. The couple’s marital dynamic has been a topic of conversation ever since it was revealed Pittman disappeared for three days without informing his wife.

He then returned without explaining his whereabouts. On top of that, his spied on his family with security cameras during his absence.

Some fans have called him “toxic,” “mentally abusive,” and “manipulative,” and are urging Sidora to leave him. The Jan. 3 episode showed the pair in counseling after numerous other attempts, and Pittman shared that he has some unresolved trauma he needs to work through.

On social media, Sidora posted messages that she and her husband are looking ahead and on the path to healing for 2021.

Drew Sidora admitted Pittman’s taken off in the past

During a chat with Andy Cohen on Watch What Happens Live, Sidora was asked if Pittman ever disappeared on their family prior to this instance, and she said yes. But she painted a picture by saying that what fans saw on TV was the first time he’d left town for multiple days.

Cohen pressed her for more information, and she admitted he went to the airport in another incident. “He actually went to get on a flight to go to Los Angeles, but he never actually took the flight. He came to his senses and came home,” Sidora explained. “But yeah, this was a first for multiple days,” she clarified.

She also made it known that Pittman just surprised the family with a trip to the beach.

Sidora also addressed the anniversary fight

Some fans had questions about the aftermath of the couple’s argument on their six-year wedding anniversary. In that episode, Sidora stormed away from the dinner table and locked herself in a room, upset about her husband’s behavior.

During WWHL, she said it was very tough and they didn’t speak to each other that night, and it took a few days for them to make up. Sidora’s mother helped them work through things. She shared that it was very embarrassing for her to be seen that way on TV, and that moment was very hard.

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Sidora and Pittman explained they married months after meeting and going on their first date. On the show, they shared they’ve been married for six years and together for six-and-a-half years. Their three children include one son from Sidora’s previous relationship.

Some fans believe Sidora is making excuses for Pittman’s behavior and are calling him out for gaslighting her, but she’s choosing to stay positive. Watch the next episode of RHOA on Sunday at 8 p.m. EST.