Sean ‘Diddy’ Combs’ Parties Reportedly Had a ‘Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell’ Policy About the Ages of Female Attendees

Sean “Diddy” Combs’ infamous parties reportedly had strict rules for female attendees. A party planner who worked with him claimed that women had to be under a certain weight, look a certain way, and follow a certain dress code. The parties were reportedly less discerning about the ages of the women. According to the party planner, they had a “don’t ask, don’t tell” policy when it came to letting young women in.

Sean ‘Diddy’ Combs’ parties reportedly welcomed underage guests

A party planner who worked with Diddy in 2004 and 2005 revealed a set of standards they had for the women who attended.

“No flab, no cellulite. Not overly pierced or tattooed. No short hair,” the party planner told the New York Post. “And the girls had to be young and hot.”

While there were strict rules for the women’s appearances, they asked few questions about the ages of party guests. The party planner said she knew some of the girls were underaged, but she assumed this was because of alcohol.

“It was don’t ask, don’t tell,” she said. “At the time, I was really young myself and I honestly thought that we weren’t asking their age because of drinking laws … I never stayed around for the Freak Offs and had no idea that these girls were expected to have sex with people.”

His lawyer has denied allegations of assault against Diddy.

“In court, the truth will prevail: that Mr. Combs has never sexually assaulted anyone — adult or minor, man or woman.”

Sean ‘Diddy’ Combs’ parties sometimes had children in attendance

While there were allegedly underage partygoers, some guests brought their children to Diddy’s events. He would make an announcement to the party when he wanted the children to leave.

“The kids have an hour left. Get extra comfortable, kids, because after that y’all got to go. It’s a wrap for y’all,” he announced to the party (via Vulture). “Because this thing turns into something that when y’all get older, y’all are going to want to come to.”

The parties reportedly took a turn after a certain hour. According to one source, even some of the celebrity attendees would leave early to avoid this.

“What happened before 2 a.m. pales in comparison to what happened at 5 a.m.” a source told Us Weekly. 

Another added that “girls would start to lose their clothes — that was the signal for people to leave.”

One attendee recalled what it was like to be at his parties

Only Fans model Sienna Grace attended a party at Diddy’s home. While she said she didn’t witness anything bad, she believed things would have gone differently if there hadn’t been children present.

“Diddy brought out his son’s birthday cake, but while he was at the party he wasn’t very present and just lurked around,” she told Dailymail.com. “I feel like if I hadn’t been there with the kids, things would have gone differently. He definitely would have tried to approach me.”

She said she hadn’t heard anything about his parties until the recent news broke.

“I’ve never heard anything about Diddy’s parties until everything came out, which was quite shocking,” she said. 

How to get help: In the U.S., call the RAINN National Sexual Assault Telephone Hotline at 1-800-656-4673 to connect with a trained staff member from a sexual assault service provider in your area.