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Sean “Diddy” Combs’ parties were massive affairs with celebrity guests and long run times. People badly wanted to attend and were willing to follow his alleged list of rules in order to do so. A party planner who said she worked with Diddy in 2004 and 2005 claimed women had to dress a certain way in order to attend. She said there was one rule with no exceptions to it.

Sean ‘Diddy’ Combs reportedly expected women to follow a dress code at his parties

When the party planner worked with Diddy, she knew not to let in any female guests who weren’t dressed a certain way.

“No pants. No jeans. No flat shoes,” she told the New York Post. “Every girl had to wear a party dress, preferably very short, just enough to cover her butt cheeks, but no longer than mid-thigh. Cleavage showing.” 

Sean 'Diddy' Combs posing in a white suit at the 2022 Billboard Music Awards at MGM Grand Garden Arena.
Sean ‘Diddy’ Combs | Axelle/Bauer-Griffin/FilmMagic

While there was room for interpretation with some of these rules, Diddy allegedly did not want any woman at the party to wear anything but stilettos. 

“And every single one of them had to be wearing stilettos. That one, there was no exception: high stilettos.”

Sean ‘Diddy’ Combs allegedly also didn’t want guests over a certain weight at his parties

The party planner also claimed that there were standards for the size of the women who attended these events. They had to be thin, and she kept a scale in her car in case they felt they needed to check someone’s weight.

“We would do a weigh-in, if necessary,” said the organizer, who worked with Diddy in 2004 and 2005, and asked to remain anonymous. “The girls had to be young and hot, so I always had a scale nearby in case I needed to make sure. The number was 140 pounds, but if a girl was really tall, there was a little bit of discretion involved.”

She claimed that Diddy had a very specific image of the type of woman he wanted in attendance.

“No flab, no cellulite. Not overly pierced or tattooed. No short hair,” she said. “And the girls had to be young and hot.”

He is currently in jail awaiting trial

In 2024, Diddy was arrested on charges of sex trafficking and racketeering. He is currently at the Metropolitan Detention Center in Brooklyn, New York. 

In September, Diddy’s lawyers presented a $50 million bail proposal that would have allowed Diddy to remain in his home until his trial. A judge rejected the proposal. The defense’s appeal was also denied.

Sean "Diddy" Combs attends Black Tie Affair For Quality Control's CEO Pierre "Pee" Thomas in a white suit and black bowtie.
Sean Diddy Combs | Paras Griffin/Getty Images
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“He’s doing fine. It’s a difficult circumstance. He’s making the best of the situation,” his lawyer Anthony Ricco said, per PBS. “Nobody’s OK with staying in jail for now.”

Diddy’s trial will begin on May 5, 2025.