Sean ‘Diddy’ Combs’ Parties Were ‘Wall-to-Wall Debauchery,’ Said Party Planner

Sean “Diddy” Combs’ parties have come under scrutiny for the “freak offs” that allegedly occurred during them. These were events full of drugs and sex that could last for days. According to a party planner who once worked with Diddy, the parties were debaucherous affairs. They recalled what made them this way.

Sean ‘Diddy’ Combs’ parties were full of ‘debauchery’

Ahead of his parties, Diddy reportedly installed mirrors on the walls and ceilings of his home.

“Everywhere you looked, you’d see yourself reflected again and again,” the planner told the New York Post. “You can imagine what it would look like when people are naked and having sex on the floor, on the couches, wherever.”

The parties were over-the-top and could cost up to $500,000. Diddy showed little concern about the price tag.

“Great food, expensive alcohol, dancers, acrobats, models,” they said. “Sometimes we had live animals, sometimes different performers. It all added up, but he didn’t care.”

The planner added that Diddy was looking to cultivate a very specific atmosphere at these events.

“It was definitely a vibe he wanted to put out there, that everywhere you looked there would be sex happening,” they said. “It was wall-to-wall debauchery.”

Sean ‘Diddy’ Combs once shared how he set up his house for his parties

Diddy reportedly did more than just install mirrors in preparation for his parties. In a 2002 interview with Conan O’Brien, Diddy admitted that he wanted it to keep doors locked at his parties.

“This is what you need to do,” Diddy said, per Vibe Magazine. “Women. Beautiful women, of course. Beautiful men for the ladies, of course … You need to give the ladies what they need, too. Take care of your women. You can’t force the situation. We need alcohols. You need some water. I don’t know if guys have noticed this, but a lot of ladies drink water at parties. So if you don’t have what they need, they gon’ leave. Gotta keep ’em there. You need locks on the doors… It’s a little kinky but, you know… rock with me.”

He added that he liked to make it as warm as possible to make people drunker and looser.

“You need a lot of heat. Don’t have no air conditioning,” he said. “Heat affects the alcohol and it also affects… you know, everybody gets a little bit more comfortable and loose. It builds up a nice little sweat.”

The events reportedly had a strict dress code for women

The party planner also went into detail about the alleged dress code in place for women. 

“No pants. No jeans. No flat shoes,” she told the New York Post. “Every girl had to wear a party dress, preferably very short, just enough to cover her butt cheeks, but no longer than mid-thigh. Cleavage showing.” 

There was some flexibility with the type of dress women would wear, but the planner said that every woman had to be in stilettos.

“And every single one of them had to be wearing stilettos,” she said. “That one, there was no exception: high stilettos.”

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