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Superstar singer The Weeknd has risen to become one of the hottest names in music over the past decade. With hits such as “Blinding Lights,” “Can’t Feel My Face,” and “The Hills,” the Canadian artist has built a successful career and made some of his wildest dreams come true.

Canadian singer Abel Makkonen Tesfaye aka The Weeknd performs live on stage during the first day of the Lollapalooza Berlin music festival at Olympiagelände on September 8, 2018 in Berlin, Germany.
Canadian singer The Weeknd performs live on stage during the first day of the Lollapalooza Berlin music festival at Olympiagelände on September 1, 2018 in Berlin, Germany | Gina Wetzler/Redferns

The Weeknd grew up in Canada

Much like his contemporary Drake, The Weeknd was born and raised in Toronto, Canada. The Weeknd — whose real name is Abel Tesfaye — grew up with his mother and grandmother.

The Weeknd had a tumultuous adolescence that involved many drugs at a young age. He smoked marijuana for the first time at just 11 years old, and he soon moved on to hard drugs. According to an interview with The New York Times, he often shoplifted so he could buy drugs such as cocaine, ketamine, ecstasy, oxycodone, and Xanax.

The Weeknd performs onstage during the 2018 Global Citizen Concert at Central Park, Great Lawn on September 29, 2018 in New York City | Kevin Mazur/Getty Images for Global Citizen
The Weeknd performs onstage during the 2018 Global Citizen Concert at Central Park, Great Lawn on September 29, 2018 in New York City | Kevin Mazur/Getty Images for Global Citizen

The Weeknd’s parents immigrated to Canada before he was born

The Weeknd grew up with the quintessential Canadian experience, but he still maintained a connection to his family’s country of origin. Both Tesfaye’s parents immigrated to Canada from Ethiopia in the 1980s before he was born in 1990.

His parents split up when he was young and he was raised primarily by his grandmother for the first few years of his life, who often took him to Ethiopian Orthodox church services. He spoke about his relationship with his father in a 2015 interview with Rolling Stone.

“I saw him vaguely when I was six, and then again when I was 11 or 12, and he had a new family and kids,” he recalled. “I don’t even know where he lived — I’d see him for, like, a night.”

“I’m sure he’s a great guy. I never judged him,” he continued. “He wasn’t abusive, he wasn’t an alcoholic, he wasn’t an a**hole. He just wasn’t there.”

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The Weeknd learned his family’s native language at home

When The Weeknd was living with his grandmother, she ensured that he wouldn’t lose touch with his mother country and tongue. At home, she only spoke Amharic, the most widely spoken language in Ethiopia. As a result, it was a few years before he started to learn English.

In a 2013 Reddit AMA, The Weeknd discussed what it was like learning Amharic before English. A fan on Reddit asked him if he spoke the Ethiopian language, and he responded that he speaks it “fluently” to this day. He even included a romantic outro in Amharic in his number 1 hit “The Hills.”

“First language I learned,” he added. “Had no dad, and mom was working 24/7, so my grandma raised me until I was like 5. No English.”